Thursday, February 11, 2010

The Happy Slut, a How to.

There are many types of sluts in the world, but most can be broken down into two groups.  The Happy ones and the not so happy ones...  What's the difference?  Or more to the point, why are some happy and why are some not?  Well that my friends all comes down to how you think of yourself.

But first, a history lesson: The term slut originated in Greece and was used to describe promiscuous men that were bisexual.  Over the years that definition has changed and now it is a derogatory term used (usually) to describe promiscuous women...  But I say the both men and women can be sluts, and there is nothing wrong with it!

Being a happy slut is all about mind set, and being comfortable with whom and what you are.  First and foremost, that there is nothing wrong with wanting sex, and wanting a lot of sex, and wanting good sex!  It is when you look upon these desires as wrong, unclean, or bad that you become unhappy with yourself.  Thoughts of "how could I have done that" and "I feel so dirty" are self destructive.  

This comes back to views of our society on anything outside of the mainstream as "bad" or "unclean".  If you have been raised to think that those desires are wrong then it takes great effort, time and energy to change even your own mindset.  Now if you were raised to believe that these feelings and desires are normal, fine, and good then you don't have that self doubt.

So, the unhappy slut is someone that views their sexual behavior as bad, dirty, and wrong.  This in turn means that they feel bad about themselves and are unhappy.  It's all about mindset, if you believe that what you are doing is normal then you will not beat yourself up over it.  Oh, and I'm here to tell you that being a slut is OK!!!

Now, there is another side of this coin...  If you are going to promiscuous then you must also be open about this with your partners.  Knowing up front that they are not your only fling makes sure that no one calls you a cheater.  I do not condone cheating in any fashion, so do not try and read that into this.  I am talking about those that are single and feel like having lots of sex, with many or few partners.

So, being a slut is normal as peach pie!  In fact, it's fun...  And this really makes me think that those that don't get laid are the ones that set down the ideologies of our society.  Since they couldn't get it, let's make those that can get laid by anyone feel bad about it...  Oh well, guess that's a blog for another day.

Now get out there and have fun damn it!

Later!

-Haven De Lancret

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