In my experience I have found that there are three types of sex, fun, love making, and fucking.
Fun sex is just that, Unstressed, giggling, comfortable sex. The kind of sex that you have with a really good friend (fuck buddy) or lover where you are just screwing around, having a good time, not even worrying about the climax just enjoying the sex and the company.
Love making, slow passionate sex with a connection of more than the physical between the lovers. This is the kind of sex that can rejuvenate mentally and physically exhaust you. Where during the sex you feel like one being enjoy just the sheer bliss of the act, and when it’s over you feel somehow less then whole.
Fucking, ah pure unhindered, hardcore, physical, and straight up, animalistic fucking. Where there is nothing but the here and now, and your whole being is consecrated on unadulterated fucking. Where you don’t even care about your partner, other than to fuck. All that matters is the sensations, actions and the fucking. The house could collapse around you and all that would mater is that you are still fucking.
Now, I am not saying that these must be taken separately, some of the best sex happens when you mix these up. Start with fun and move to fucking and end with love making. The possibilities are endless. But one thing is always true, sex should be enjoyable. If you’re not enjoying it, then change it so you are.
-Haven De Lancret