This is a reminder to all couples out there. Do you remember what it was like when you first started dating your SO? What did you spend hours doing? You spent hours exploring each other, kissing, making out, and just enjoying being with that person. It was not about getting right to the sex.
I think that over time that couples loose sight of that as they spend more years together. You might find that it is something that you are missing. Its not that either of you did it on purpose, it just happens with the familiarity that comes with being together for the time you have.
In the beginning you were learning about each other, what pleases that person, what they like or don't and what turns them on. Now that you have been with them for as long as you have, you know right what to do to get them going. Not that you should forget that, you should just slow down and explore each other while turning each other.
So take some time, slow down, and act like high school/collage kids again!
Keep it kinky!
-Haven De Lancret