Thursday, October 27, 2011

TV Killed the Father Role Model

Yup, I said it. TV sitcoms have official killed the father role model. If you watch any sitcoms in the last 5 years with fathers in them, they are all bumbling, lying, and downright dumb. Really, is that what we see as a society in our fathers? Its one of the many reasons I don't watch sitcoms. As a father and husband I just pisses me off to see these buffoons making a mockery of something I hold dear. I make it a point to be the best father and husband that I can be.

Case in point, "According to Jim", "8 Simple Rules", "My Wife and Kids" to name a few. All of these have fathers that lie. Really, its not that hard of a thing, not lie to your spouse or kids (unless its about Santa), but these shows them doing it all the damn time. How are to expect anyone to take lying seriously when these morons get away with doing it all the time? If I lied to my wife or friends half as much as these asshats do I would be out on my ass or without friends for the rest of my life.

What happened to the strong father, the ones that showed their kids what to do and how to act with actions. I guess that would not be "funny", or at least humorous to the masses. About the only show on recently that I can think of with a strong father in it is "Castle", and its even funny! The worst thing is, its intelligent humor and there for will probably be pulled from the air in the next year and replaced with The Real Housewives of the Jersey Shore Real World Road Rules Challenge Survivor Race...

To all of you that are still great Father role models, keep it up, or we will end up with a society of people raised by bumbling lying buffoons.

Keep it, well, Keep it up...

-Haven

Wednesday, October 26, 2011

Recommended Blog

So I hope that most of you enjoy getting the Haven perspective, but I also know that I and my thoughts are not for everyone. For what ever reason, my writing style, my views, or maybe its just because I hair on my big toes.

Because of this, I would like to recommend another blog that you all might be interested in. Written by lady, and while its for all she does focus more on the women's side of things in relationships, kink, BDSM, and sex. I encourage you all to take a look over her blog, yes, even guys for it is always good to listen to women when it comes to what they want.

Tarnished Halo

Keep in kinky!

-Haven

Tuesday, October 25, 2011

Nice piece of erotica on Good Vibes

Here is a nice little piece of erotica to get your blood flowing this morning. Why, because its Tuesday and don't we all need a little more good erotica in our lives?

"Going Home" by Rose William. Published on Good Vibrations Magazine.


“Nine car SFO/Millbrae train arriving in six minutes.” I shivered a little. The elevated outdoor platform at the Fruitvale station was chilly, and it was late.

“Cold honey? Let me warm you up.” Cally stepped up close to me and pressed herself against the length of my body. I had been lightly leaning against a post, and found myself suddenly pinned against it.

“A little. I never wear enough layers.”

“Well, we have six minutes. I bet I can get you pretty hot by the time the train comes.” She grinned and kissed me hard.

I didn’t want her to kiss me. I didn’t want her to win me back. We had broken up this weekend and had only kept this dinner date because we weren’t quite ready to explain to all of our friends that we were splitting up. But she had cheated on me. And even though it was last year, and the only reason I knew about it was that she had drunkenly, tearfully, confessed it late Saturday night, I didn’t want her lips on me. Not lips that had lied to me for ten months. Not lips that had fucked some random girl while I was out of town.

But she kissed me anyway. And because she’s electric, it did warm me up. All it took was her red lips on mine, and I had forgotten the chill. She had always been able to do that to me. One kiss from her and I forgot the world.

Except this time, I couldn’t forget. I couldn’t forget that we were about to go home to separate bedrooms. And that she was looking for a new place. And that I still had to break the news to pretty much everyone I knew. And that those lips had been on someone else. That I wasn’t the only one she was electrifying.

“Look, I know what you’re thinking. And I know that we’re over. And I know that you might not be able to believe this, but I love you. And I always have. And I just want to feel close to you and do one nice thing for you. Let me warm you up. Five minutes till the train. Let me see what I can do for you in five minutes. I promise I’m not being tricky. I just want to do this. Here. Because…”

Click here to read the whole piece.

-Haven

Wednesday, October 5, 2011

Women, can you get turned on when not in the mood?

So I have been working this over in my head after a discussion I had earlier. Women, can you get aroused or turned on when your not in the mood?

I created the following to find out what you women think.

Women, please fill it out and yes its completely anonymous.

Keep it kinky!

-Haven