Monday, November 21, 2011

How to Lick Pussy, Part 2, More Tips

I guess its not surprising, but this is the most commonly asked question I get.  Since I have already wrote a blog about this already (Pussy Licking 101) I feel I should share a few more tips and tricks that I have picked up over the years of going down on women.

  • ABC oral: So this one might sound a bit odd, but it really does work.  If you have ever slipped your way between her thighs to her holy ground, caressing her as you go, and then freeze because you don't know what to do?  This will help, use your tongue to spell out that alphabet in upper case letters.  I know, sounds corning, but it works to get your tongue to move all over her pussy.  If you get to Z, start over, or for fun, try lower case letters.  It doesn't matter, just get that tongue in there and move it, move it!
  • Rhythm: "He moves to fast" is a common complaint from women.  Thing is, fast is good, just not all the time.  Try to lick slowly for a while, around the outer lips, then move in for a fast slice up the middle.  The variation in your speed can increase her pleasure by not knowing what your going to do next.
  • Direction: Unlike driving (Turn here Honey!), being told what and where is OK.  Most men would appreciate a little direction when it comes to oral sex, we are down there to please the girl.  In this, it can be helpful to place a hand in our hair and push or pull slightly to the spot you want to be licked.  This not only tells us what you want, you will get what you want more then likely, and besides, you will feel like a porn star.
  • Ice: For a wild twist, after you have been working her over for awhile, take a piece of ice from the cup of ice water near by (What, you don't have one?  Next time remember to hydrate after sex!), place it in your mouth and continue to lick her pussy, starting with the outer lips.  I warn you, this sometimes can be to much, but it also can be a wonderfully shocking and pleasurable experience. 
  • The Other Parts: When you doing an oral exam of her lower lips, you don't have to restrict yourself to just to her pussy.  Yes, I know, this is about oral sex, but do you ever just eat one food? No, you don't.  Think of this much the same way.  When you are going down on her, feel free to use you hands other places.  If she enjoys having her breasts played with, then reach a hand up and play with them.  If she is into a little spanking, then eat her out while laying on your sides and give her ass a good smack or two.
  • Bondage: Bondage is just great for oral sex, no matter who it is.  When someone is tied down or bound, it is almost like giving them a ticket to let go and enjoy whats happening.  Just make sure that they are bound is such a way that you can still get access to the parts you are going to want to play with.  On the flip side, binding the one that will be doing the licking can take the power out of the their hands (which most agree is where it is during oral sex) and put it back in the hands of the girl.  My only warning about this is, if the person that is bound is going to be doing the licking and they are on the bottom, make sure you let up every once in a while so they can breath.  Refer to my blog on Bondage for more info.
  • Playing the Senses: It is a know fact that when when you remove one sense that the others become heightened.  Since eating a girl out is mostly physical sensation, you can play around with her other senses.  Try blindfolding her, or plug in her MP3 Player to some sexy music for her to listen to.  Just removing her sight and sound from her senses can make it feel like what you are doing to her is more intense.
There you go, some more ideas of how you can please you girl with your oral skills.

As always, if you have any comments feel free to post them here or send me a message at kinkyasiam@gmail.com.

Keep it Kinky!

-Haven 

1 comment:

  1. Ice is a great idea...I cant wait to try that one out!

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