Tuesday, January 31, 2012

A good article from the BBC

A nice article on BDSM from the BBC.


They give some good points, granted from the point of view from across the pond.

Keep it kinky,

-Haven

Saturday, January 28, 2012

US Mandates full payment of birth control

I feel this is a big step for us as a country.  Now, all insurance companies must pay in full for birth control for woman.  About time, I say.

Here is one news story.

Keep it kinky,

-Haven

Best friends make the best relationships.

Have you ever seen or known those couples that have been together for a very long time?  Have you noticed how they still act like they just started dating?  I bet I can guess that before they were lovers that they were best friends.  I feel that this is because there is more to their relationship then just the physical or sexual attraction.  These are couples that have a foundation of common interests and caring that they then build the rest of the relationship on to.

When a relationship does not have that friendship as a foundation, then when issues arise within those that are the base, then it becomes easier to end that relationship.  If the relationship is based on sexual attraction, then when issues come up with sex, then the whole relationship is on the line.  Same goes for physical attraction, or any type of relationship.

So my advice is, when looking for a long term relationship, maybe you should take a look around your friends one more time.

Keep it kinky,

-Haven

Wednesday, January 11, 2012

Not fear, Havens still here!

Have no fear readers, I just took a bit of time with the holidays to collect my thoughts and give me a game plan as to what I am going to write on this year and what direction I wanted to go this year.

I will be making some posts soon (like, within a week) but with the new semester starting I am trying to find teh schedule that works best for me.  I am going to go back to some relationship issues, as well as touch on some Dominance and submission issues, as well as some other fun topics like raising kids within an alternative lifestyle.

Also in the works, some short stories based around a very kinky night at a Renascence faire, as well as I am working on a card game based on seduction.  Still working out the rules, but I have the basic idea in my head.

So stay tuned, stay horny, and see more soon!

Keep it kinky!

-Haven

Thursday, January 5, 2012

Thanks to the BoE

Thanks to the Board of Education in Detroit, for hosting my Sensual Sadist class this week.  They were a great crowd and I had a blast.  Looking forward to the possibility of heading back to that side of the state to some of the other classes and presenters they are having later this year.

Had some great questions asked that have me thinking of more blogs and info to share.  Keep an eye out for more about my younger years and how I was raised.

Keep it kinky!

-Haven